I told her that I was talking to my biological fathers children and some cousins, aunts, and uncles and she lost it. My biological father has passed on. I told her that I will talk to whom ever I choose and they are my other family by birth. (I am 41 yrs old btw) She never told me about him until I was 24 or 25 yrs old (always thought my stepdad was my real dad) and feels that I am the product of a past she never wanted me to know about. She said she left when I was an infant and hid from them for 24-25 yrs. Well I asked her what was so bad about her past and she clams up and ignores or avoids the questions but does say it was not abuse. Should I ask his side of the family what is her problem with them or why she wont acknowledge they exist? I feel like I am missing a part of me and who I am. I feel different from my mom and her side of the family. I want to know more about my Father.
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