My son has a son with a nice girl... she is a nice girl but it is really hard to understand her...
She is 20 years old and my son is 22 ( my grandson is 9 months old) .. My son has a good job and got thema house... After she had the baby she started going to school and got a job. I offered to keep him while she is gone but she wants him to "socialize" in daycare ( and that is what her whole paycheck goes to) ... That was hard to get over but I guess I am adjusting to it because they are his parents ( my son isnt too happy about that though)
She is acting like she is a spokesperson for not getting pregnant now.. I mean I understand he wasnt planned and put a strain on her plans but she actually said he was a mistake and that she never wanted kids until after she was 30..
Also the fact that because she wont marry my son yet ( she says she will after she sees where her carreer will take her) *continued*
Asked by Anonymous at 10:16 PM on Nov. 18, 2010 in Parenting Debate
Answer by MumaSue at 8:51 PM on Nov. 19, 2010
WOW- i would be Upset too! i could understand him going to daycare if he was a little older to socialize but, that is Crazy not to let you take care of him & use her whole check on daycare- She sounds Very Selfish & Controlling- it might be a Good Thing for them not to get married right now; your son needs to Stand his ground with her- I'm sorry she is acting like this to you- i am sure she has hurt your feelings but, i don't think it has anything to do with with you- just control........
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