My husband didn't say anything at first. He just looked hurt and disappointed. The next day he came to me and asked if we could give it six more months, and if I still felt that way he would give me a divorce and never ask another thing of me again. I agreed and it was HARD work. We had many arguments while discussing our issues with each other and pointing out each others faults. It was easy to dish the dirt on him, but soooo difficult to hear him tell all of the issues with me. But after a lot of compromise and communication, we're still married. We're not 100% happy, but I don't want to divorce him anymore. Of course, every relationship is different, but I'm glad he asked me to give it another chance...and I'm especially glad I did.
at 2:43 PM on Nov. 19, 2010