I am a financial disaster! I cannot for the life of me budget my money. If you give me a dollar, I will spend a dollar and a dime. I am lucky my DH is very good with money, but it is not fair to him that I am such a complete irresponsible mess. I mean, what if he died tomorrow? He has to worry that his kids would be homeless becasue I over spend and put off paying bills.
Here is where I need help. I admit I have the problem. I think some may stem from the 4 yrs I was a single mom with no child support. I would put the utilities and rent off, in case we needed food, gas, clothes etc. I know it makes no sense to you all , but that is the way I looked at it. I need help on how to address this problem. Why do I behave this way? It is not just I am rude, I think there is a deep seeded issue I cannot name and need to deal with. I need to turn over my debit card to him, let him cash my check, and put me on a budget.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:08 AM on Nov. 19, 2010 in Money & Work
Maybe that's just how you are. We all have are whatever that we would like to change or should change, but for some reason you just can't get that one thing together. I would try just to make a few simple changes or improvements on it. I think you are trying to keep yourself in check by the things you are doing. Don't be so hard on yourself, nobody is perfect. I hope this at least made you feel a little better:)
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