whenever we go to her house with her family - she is nice to me and acts like everything in fine. BUT at my house shes a B. Snotty - better than me- looks down on me "and" my family. The last time she was here (for my DH bday - HER BROTHER's - she refused to help at all, or to bring anything.) it was a surprise party for her brother! and she always asks me to bring something when she has stuff! and i do! ) it sounds so stupid - i know. but she is SO rude to me! at my DH party at my house she actually PUSHED my mom, WHILE my mom was holding my DS! people saw and were asking me what her probem is... a while ago when i wanted to have a holiday party at my house - with both our families she actually said to me that she doesn't need to "deal" with my family bc her brother married into them not her. UGGH. i'm telling you she's snooty. so my DH has talked to her before - so have i. nothing has been said about pushing my mom. cont'dAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:34 AM on Nov. 19, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by josiesmommy00 at 10:37 AM on Nov. 19, 2010
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Answer by bjojola at 10:46 AM on Nov. 19, 2010
You need to establish your authority in YOUR home. She is a guest in YOUR house and she needs to respect you. As far as things that go on outside your home, that is where your husband needs to step in. This is HIS family and if there is something that makes you uncomfortable he needs to be the one to address it. I wouldn't call her and bring up past but I would catalog it, and the next time she pulls her crap stand your ground. Be sure your husband is aware of how you feel and tell him you would like for him to address the issue (it is his obligation as your husband. Even if it was your sister acting like this.). Also, I would not put myself in a position to be around her unless I had to. Good Luck!!!
Answer by Conley639 at 10:49 AM on Nov. 19, 2010
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Answer by Ren_Ren at 10:59 AM on Nov. 19, 2010
I wouldn't invite her to stuff and if she asks you why you are not asking her to come to things, tell her what you told us. Maybe she will straighten up then, if not just leave her out of things. She acts like she doesn't want to be apart of it anyways. If she doesn't like your family fine, but that doesn't give her the right to be rude at your house.
Answer by Shines3 at 10:59 AM on Nov. 19, 2010