For a while I been trying to figure out why my son is acting up in school so badly. Some suggested ADD or ADHD. I say hes a 6 yr old boy!! His father and I have not been together in 3 years, and my bf and I have been together for three years. He has grown quite fond of my bf. Which is AWESOME. They are funny together.
Well his father is a CO for the Sheriff's Dept so he works like 12 hour shifts. I was not aware that my son spends most of his time at his grandparents house!!! Could his father not have asked me to take him, considering I AM HIS MOTHER, and im sure he would like to spend time with me. Instead of every other weekend. in the past I have tried to get him more often but it was hard with conflicting schedules and a hard ass for an ex who still likes to control me and use my son as a pawn.
I feel so silly for not thinking that its very possible that his behavior is a result of not seeing EITHER of his parents enough. So, once I can get in touch with my ex I am gonig to suggest that my son stay with me unless there is a reason as to why he cant. my bf is unemployeed right now so he is up for watching him while I work. :-) He's getting so much better now that hes going to be a father!! My son has actually slipped twice and called my bf daddy... he caught it of course, but did not make him feel bad for making the small mistake. so im thinking if I take him more often, i think and HOPE we will see a HUGE improvement in school
Answer by dancinintherain at 7:05 PM on Nov. 19, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 7:05 PM on Nov. 19, 2010
Answer by simpleesr23 at 7:11 PM on Nov. 19, 2010
Answer by cnice1976 at 7:28 PM on Nov. 19, 2010
Answer by JLS2388 at 8:44 PM on Nov. 19, 2010