I'm 4'7, was always chubby, but kept my weight in the "cute chubby girl " range
When I met DF I was single and having fun, had lots of guys interest, so I was confident.
I got pregnant right away and ballooned, gained 60+ pounds...at the end of my pregnancy I was 200lbs and TERRIBLY self conscious.
It's been a little over 2 years now ( 3 yrs in July) that we've been together and I'm 24 wks pregnant and gaining again!!
Might I add, I only lost maybe 20 pounds max of the previous baby weight!
So I'm pretty low lately and feeling pretty shitty about myself!
DF says he's not out to find anything else, and loves me ..doesn't wanna be with anyone else etc...but I feel like he's settled due to circumstances, and I feel even lower when he looks and gawks and worst of all comments on skinnier more attractive women .
( After all I am the first and ONLY "fuller" woman he's ever been with) Previously they all fit the short, skinny, average looking mold.
I'm so upset tonight after telling him I feel disrespected when he talks about other women's anatomy, and feel second rate, because I'm just not up to "par"
he tried to reassure me by telling me he isn't going anywhere because he's invested in this relationship..but I still feel sad :(
He brings up 3somes ( he'd love to have one, and I have in the past...but it's not something I am comfortable with in a relationship)
I think it's just an excuse to be with someone "visually appealing"
Am I just over sensitive?
I know he wouldn't cheat....but I just want to feel more valued by him...
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