I am 17 weeks pregnant. That may be a reason. I dunno. But my bf and I have not had sex in a week, which is not a bad thing, but I feel like he isnt interested anymore. Mainly cause of my body changing. :( I mentioned it to him and he said that it is something that he is iffy about which I dont know y but I understand some how. Today he put his hand on my leg a few times. as if to let me know he knows Im there. We play video games together all the time and he finds that "hot". I almost thought something was gonna happen yesterday morning. But it didnt. he just let "it" go away. :( am i doing something wrong? I dont want to ask for it or even try anymore cause Im always get turned down. I have the worst timing apparently. It makes me more sad when I see a porn site up in the browser after i get home from work, when i was home with him all day. I dunno. it could just be a phase. im not gonna fight about it. He made a sexual comment yesterday and im like well its been a while so I wouldnt know.... hes like I know Im sorry..
the whole world doesnt revolve around sex. Maybe Im just not feeling pretty right now and the more im not liking how I look the less attractive I look to him. cause he does seem to like when I am happy when I look nice and all. I present myself sexy or whatever it is he says. I could just be sexually frustrated as well cause I am pregnant and I want it more lol....... ugh. I know things will be fine. he says I love you when I tell him I love him, and we goof around almost all the time. so things will change. :/
Asked by Anonymous at 4:54 PM on Nov. 20, 2010 in Pregnancy
Answer by Nanixh at 5:01 PM on Nov. 20, 2010
Answer by jewelbuglover at 5:48 PM on Nov. 20, 2010
My hubby didn't like to have sex when i was pregnant with my daughter either...i hear some guys think it's sexy, but definitely not my guy...the bigger i got, the less sex we had. Honestly, it's still not the same, my body's still not pre-prego shape either. not bad, but definitely not the same. and our life style is just different than carefree sex before we became parents. Just enjoy the time and attention he does give you and if it really makes you sad and lose your self-confidence, make him talk to you about it. it's important! It's so easy to get sucked into your emotions when you're pregnant it's crazy. Best of luck love.
Answer by knjones at 8:15 PM on Nov. 20, 2010
Answer by Stephie999 at 2:10 AM on Nov. 21, 2010
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what could it hurt? sry not sure where to post this