im a full time pharmacy student, im taking 21 credit hours this quarter...well anyway my dh works evenings and is home the whole time im in school. he doesnt do anything as far as house work and i have came home several times to find him sleepin in the chair and my 3 yr old running about the house. he wont even cook lunch for her, i have to come home in between classes to feed her ohterwise all she will have is pop. i have come to my wits end today when i cleaned my dd room and found out that he had given her, her jewelry box that had her ear rings and tiny hair clippys that i had put up on her top shelf in the closet cause she isnt old enough to have them yet. now all of her earrings and such are missin or broken. most of them are ones that i had as a child and wanted her to have when she got older. and then he blames me for house always being a mess even tho im not here when the messes occur and i try to clean as much as i can in the evenings. he thinks that cause all i do is go to school that i should be able to do everything on my own on top of my homework and help my boys with their homework. it wouldnt be so bad if he at least clean up after dd and watch her to keep her from gettin into stuff but he wont. his job at work consist of passing pills in a higher functioning group home, not easy but still easier than most jobs. (i used to work there so i know) i also have 2 other kids ages 8 and 6 that are home in the evenings and in school all day....i see no excuse of why he cant do some of the housework and why he cant watch dd to keep her from gettin into things(like dumping bath soaps and shampoo out, tearing up pads and tampons, shredding books, dumping chips-crackers everywhere..) i dont know how im gonna manage until summer to move. i cant leave b4 then cause i have 2 quarters till i graduate and i plan on attending an university in another state next fall so signing another lease somewhere here is not an option besides i need to save the money i have to move on this summer...
your thoughts? advice?
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