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woyld you stay with a man even if you and him only been together 3 months and are fussing most of the time and one time it turned physical between you two and your 3 years old saw you get pushed would you whoop his butt and go about you business or just up and leave or stay...

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Asked by poohkie79 at 7:03 PM on Nov. 20, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I would take my son/daughter and leave right then and there

    Answer by TsMommy428 at 7:04 PM on Nov. 20, 2010

  • I'd already be gone, you're wasting time asking us on CM

    Answer by Sharell8710 at 7:04 PM on Nov. 20, 2010

  • Leave, if it isn't working move on. your baby needs a better example and you need happy,safe relationship

    Answer by raisingmen at 7:05 PM on Nov. 20, 2010

  • its only been 3 months? i would have left so fast he'd be eating my dust :p

    Answer by pookipoo at 7:05 PM on Nov. 20, 2010

  • You just asked a question about him pulling a knife on you and then now this....what is wrong with you why are you not leaving that relationship. VERY unhealthy for your child and self!!!!!!!

    Answer by JakesCupcake at 7:06 PM on Nov. 20, 2010

  • just up and leave

    Answer by fiatpax at 7:08 PM on Nov. 20, 2010

  • Get out, it doesn't get WILL get worse!

    Answer by momov4kids at 7:08 PM on Nov. 20, 2010

  • If you value yourself and your child, leave.

    Answer by tootoobusy at 7:12 PM on Nov. 20, 2010

  • if you leave, your son will learn its not okay for a man to hurt a woman (and vice versa)... he will know you are protecting him and you think enough of yourself to leave an unsafe situation...

    if you stay, your son will learn its okay to treat your partner however you feel like without any conseqences... he will wonder why you don't care enough about yourself to protect you both and he will lose all respect for you and the women in his future...

    so what is your choice?

    Answer by babymar at 7:12 PM on Nov. 20, 2010

  • You've been together three months and all you do is fight, and it's even gotten to the point of becoming physical? Take your child and leave, now. One push leads to one slap, which leads to one punch, which leads to who knows what else. Three months is long enough time to figure out if you two are compatible to last longer. If you're not getting along most of the time now there's no hope for the relationship. Then ontop of that he's pushed you. Who's to say that it won't be worse next time? Do you really want you or your daughter to find out what he's capable of? I doubt it. Pack your bags and leave that loser.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 7:15 PM on Nov. 20, 2010

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