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Im 9 weeks out of pregnancy.................. adult content

And it still hurts to have sex..........why? What should I do? I know TMI but i need to know

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Asked by LilTiffanysmomm at 11:29 AM on Nov. 21, 2010 in Relationships

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  • its normal for sex to hurt for awhile after having baby things are still trying to heal even after 9wks. If you had a c section it could take a while longer. use lots of lubercant and go slow. if the pain continues or seems to get worse then consult your dr.

    Answer by Jaxsmommy09 at 11:32 AM on Nov. 21, 2010

  • Thank you

    Comment by LilTiffanysmomm (original poster) at 11:36 AM on Nov. 21, 2010

  • I would refrain from sex and go back to the dr.

    Answer by mrsljamieson at 11:54 AM on Nov. 21, 2010

  • I would see the doctor.

    Answer by CandyHorse at 12:04 PM on Nov. 21, 2010

  • Definitely talk to the doctor. You should be able to safely have sex after 4-6 weeks after vaginal birth and like 8-12 after c-section. I had a very painful c-section and we did it 8 weeks after...I got on top and it made it SO much easier. Try that bc you can control everything where it does not hurt so bad. Do not push your body, it just went through major changes.

    Answer by meg4763 at 10:10 AM on Nov. 22, 2010

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