To preface my father is NOT dead, so far as I know, my brother was just being a butthead of the highest order.
My brother left a message on facebook would I attend my father's funeral if he died. My family all know taht my father molested me as a child, but my mother is the only one who believes me. Even her own mother thinks that she brainwashed me and nothing ever happened. So I was very upset by his comment. I haven't talked to my dad in ages becuase he always tells me that it was all made up and I refuse to talk to him until he can admit what he did and be a grown up about it.
Am I wrong in that to start with? My brothers comment well I just deleted it and am choosing to ignore the fact that he left it to begin with. I don't really know a great way to deal with it. On the one hand yes the man is my father on the other hand I can't deal with him in any way and it would be dishonest to wait till he dies and then act like nothing ever happened WHEN IT DID. Not to mention well, you know, we wouldn't have money. Should I even respond to my brother? If so, with what?
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