It's really hard to actually tickle yourself. And that is why when we are having a bad day, it feels really nice when our Hubs/SO/Person notices and asks. I'm all for open communication and saying what you need, but having to tell your closest person that you are having a bad day kind of defeats the purpose. We need to feel deeply cared for and understood, not like we are cramming our b****ing into their earhole. Just my thoughts on it.
So they are supposed to read our minds essentially? No, I don't agree completely with that statement. Sometimes you have to tell people things because they can't read minds and maybe have so much on theirs (or are having a bad day ) that they don't pick up on things right away. Sorry but the statement is too high maintenance for me.
Answer by hobbitswife04 at 8:15 PM on Nov. 21, 2010
Answer by ILOVEMYBOYS704 at 7:56 PM on Nov. 21, 2010
Answer by Darla47 at 8:26 PM on Nov. 21, 2010