Has anyone ever had an "open relationship"? If so how do you make it work without things being considered cheating?
I only ask because my husband is more interested in this whole thing than I am, and he's already messed around behind my back without me knowing it. I love my husband and want him to be happy, but not at my expense!
Asked by Anonymous at 11:39 PM on Nov. 21, 2010 in Relationships
He's already done it at your expense if he cheated. Instead of thinking about how happy your husband will be, because it seems he's taken care of that, you need to think about what will make you happy. It wont work, and if you care and love yourself enough, you'll run before it gets really bad. I usually don't tell people to leave their SO, but I can see where this is heading. It's not going to work out because I can tell this is something you don't want. A relationship doesn't work if both partners are only concerned with one persons happiness, you both should be concerned about each others happiness.
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