I've posted random issues between me and DH over the years. The most common advice is to talk to him. Hell I've even given that advice before, assuming that the woman's DH wasn't like mine. My DH blows me off if I try to have a meaningful conversation. I'd like to tell him that range from him insulting me (He's said "your hair looks stupid"....why not say some thing less hateful? This is not the only time, just one example) to him griping at me about not wanting sex. (I've told him that foreplay would help me out, but he doesn't want to put forth any effort. Since he's horny 24/7 he expects me to be the same.) Just yesterday I told my kids to throw away any toy that was broken. We clean their playroom several times a year and get rid of broken things and donate things they don't want. DH comes in there and totally disregards what he just heard me saying and insinuates that I'm ridiculous or something. They have toys up to the ceiling and broken toys have no place in amongst every thing! These are just examples of recent things, not the ONLY issues we have. What can I do to make myself heard? Any assertive Mommas have some advice?
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