First I must tell you all I have no friends, I put my everything into my 27 year marriage. Last year my husband was diagnosed with kidney failure, he is doing well now. In June of this year he met a woman whom he dated before me. He moved out and has decided that he wants to be with her, she lives in another state. We have 5 children two still at home. He is on diaylsis and is doing okay. He goes to visit her every month. This month she came here and she told him I love you , I want to be with you, I take just as you are. These are things that he has always known about me. I have always been in love with my husband and still is. He came to me one day and wanted to sleep with me and I did, we have been sleeping together at least two times per week when he is not away. Afterward he acts as if I am bothering him to talk to him. I know I am wrong but I love him so much and don't want to loose him to another woman. He told me he is planning to move to the state she is in. I won't make it. I love my husband so much. I asked this woman to leave him alone an let us work on our marriage she told me no, He has been my whole world WHAT CAN I DO. I try to get over him I can't. HEll cant be worse than this. I feel like I don't want to live. The holidays are the worst we have never been apart this long. I was with him since I was 17. I want my husband to come home.
I have prayed and prayed nothing has changed.. I have nobody to talk to. what can i do.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:49 AM on Nov. 22, 2010 in Relationships
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