I got with my husband with the understanding that I wanted 6 kids. Now after 4 he says no more. He thinks the world will end as we know it in 2012 and doesn't want small children to be victimized. OTHER SIDE: His ex has 2 kids with him that she won't allow us to see. We have a court order, but she won't follow it and we have to take her back to court AGAIN to force visitation. Now, she got with a guy, he beat her and went to jail when she was prego, got out and they are still together. When her baby was 4 mo old she got prego, miscarried, then got prego 2 weeks later. They are actually TRYING to have a baby so soon. She is constantly on welfare cash assistance, so the child support we pay goes to the state. When she isn't on cash assistance (like when he gets a job) she collects childcare payments for watching his daughter from a previous relationship. My problem: Why am I being kept from completing the big family I've always wanted and my DH was previously on track with? We have the means to support our kids, and I am a stay at home mom and take very good care of them. Why does a girl so screwed up get to keep popping out kids she can't support? Should i be so hurt that my DH doesn't want to go through with the big family? Do I just have to sit back and watch others have babies and deal with it? My DH said if I wanted another baby I should go find someone else to get me pregnant so the blood is not on his hands. WTF? That is crazy!!!
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That's sad. It's sad to see people who are good mother not able have children. I hope your husband changes his mind. My mother wanted more children to then my father went and got a hysterectomy. Hang in there.
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