I caused a huge fight today, that I had no intensions of starting. Now hes out. I feel like emailing or writing him a letter. But I dont know if it will do any good since he is throughly pissed at me. _got mad about one of the girls he talks to, even tho I know now there is nothing going on with them)............... I dont know where to begin to fix this mess. holidays are here and my bday too. I dont want to end the year this way. I want him to seem like he wants me............................................................ advice on what to write in a letter... ?Answer Question
Answer by chanelsparkels at 2:53 PM on Nov. 22, 2010
Answer by imuney at 2:53 PM on Nov. 22, 2010
Answer by Timothys_Grl at 2:56 PM on Nov. 22, 2010
Answer by dancer at 2:57 PM on Nov. 22, 2010
I want him to seem like he wants me............................................................
This screams low self esteem. If you are depending on him(or any body) to make you feel better or more confident ...they can't. Only YOU can do that for you. If you want him to act like he wants you, make the first move and let him know you want him. As for the letter. Just tell him what is in your heart. You basically accused him of something you know isn't happening. Lots of men read that as 'crazy' or 'psycho". Apologize, and vow not to go there again. Women sabotage their relationships like this all the time. If you want to save it, fight for it.
Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 2:58 PM on Nov. 22, 2010
Answer by okmommy08 at 3:04 PM on Nov. 22, 2010
Answer by LindaClement at 3:23 PM on Nov. 22, 2010
well my personal opinion is he shouldnt have gotten mad . he should be more understanding . you sould tell him how you felt and what made you do that . i dont feel he has a reason to be mad . he should reassure you that he loves you and nothings going on and you should tell him your feeling very insecure ( if you are ) . you shouldnt have to say sorry over and over again . something is going on or he feels guilty about something he has done if he got madd and made a huge fight over it . and you may be having a womans instinct of knowing your man may be cheating on you ( just a theory ; i feel you wouldnt have lashed out on him if you didnt feel he was cheating or doing something wrong ) . that is something to consider . sit down and have a serious face to face conversation with him and tell him exactly how you feel from your heart . and if he reacts understamding and like he cares and reassures you everything is okay
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