My husband and I have 3 young children. Due to serious financial strains, arguing, bickering...I don't know if we can last. When we get in arguments, he loses his cool in front of the kids. Screams at me. Maybe weekly, or every otehr week. Calls me a fat B-or says I'm a slut, throws things. Yet 99% of the time he is wonderful. Then he makes it sound like it's all my fault because I started it. Sometimes I did start it...through a disagreement or whatever. That doesn't warrent someone behaving like this. I get scared of him at times. The things he says is aweful. We argued yesterday morning and I had it. I told him I was leaving him. Now he is threatening already about the kids, he is saying he is keeping our child, etc...and it's making me freak out. I don't know what to do. I can't live with him. But I can't live without my child with me at all times. I don't want to put my children through this. I was divorced as a young mother already once, due to a cheating spouse..I mentally and emotionally can't handle this again...I'm only 29. I don't know how I got in this mess! How can we get through this? He refuses to go to counseling..he's too stubborn.Answer Question
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