What is your husband's idea of romance?
I have found over the years, that understanding/knowing what types of things my husbabd finds romantic and doing those things (or things along those lines) are by far the most appreciated, because he actually "get" what's going on and the intent behind the actions.
In the past. I would do things that **I** felt were romantic. Then I would get hurt, and feel unappreciated when he didn't "get" what I was doing, or what my intentions were. It was simple miscommunication and hurt feelings happened when they could have been prevented. Once I changed my way of thinking, and started doing things **he** found romantic instead, things just kept getting better and better (in this area) over the years. Now we are both constantly doing "romantic" things for one another, because we actually See the intentions behind each others actions more often.
at 4:02 PM on Nov. 22, 2010