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Does your huband make you feel like an idiot?

I can't say anything to him without him trying to make what I said be stupid or wrong. Maybe I really am an idiot. Just now I was trying to tell him about something that someone we both know said on facebook. I thought it was kind of funny. But he didn't believe me at all. He told me it was stupid and why would I say something like that on FB. He wouldn't even listen to me enough to understand that it wasn't me who said it. But I am the idiot.

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:16 PM on Nov. 22, 2010 in Relationships

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  • My current DH has never once belittled me or made me feel like an idiot. IMO, it's abuse.

    Answer by Scuba at 7:19 PM on Nov. 22, 2010

  • had one like that
    now he is an ex

    this husband of your better watch his mouth before he is an ex too

    Answer by fiatpax at 7:21 PM on Nov. 22, 2010

  • Yes, I had one like that and he is also my EX.

    Answer by kerp1960 at 7:33 PM on Nov. 22, 2010

  • My EX husband made me feel like that. That is part of the reason he is an EX

    Answer by layh41407 at 7:48 PM on Nov. 22, 2010

  • Never, my DH is never that way to me.

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 9:18 PM on Nov. 22, 2010

  • my personal experience tells me that he has to make me feel stupid to boost him now when he tries to down me or make me feel stupid or small i say does than make you feel bigger and better ooohhhh so glad i could help your ego so what about mine i get sarcastic i dont know long you guys have been together but speak now dont wait trust me speak right away you should always feel free to say anything

    Answer by boondocks at 9:21 PM on Nov. 22, 2010

  • when i was marred my hubby did this to me all the time ,now that he is getting older pay backs our a bitch i now do it to him
    and he has ask why do i do it and i tell him you did to me hurts right well now you know how i felt
    what goes around comes around

    Answer by dutchcanadain at 12:27 AM on Nov. 23, 2010

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