I m/c in June and did alot of mourning the first month and seemed to be fine after my period resumed and we could begin TTC again. Life has gone ahead and we are blessed in so many ways and are both busy with work and the two children that we have. Now, I am a month from my 'expected due date' and very sad and weepy again (just like I was the first month after my m/c) Every time I hear of someone else being pregnant, I get so upset. I know it is b/c this is in the forefront of my mind, but I do have many friends and aquaintances who are pregnant and showing or have just found out they are, and it is so hard to be happy for them. I am, but I feel sorry for myself.
Although I know everyone is different, how long was it before you realized that you weren't so sad and weepy at the mention of others around you being pregnant? I am hoping that once the due date has passed and some more time, that in the new year, it will also be a new start for us too and that I can move forward.
I always told myself that there was a reason the baby passed! By the way I had 3 miscarriages. There could have been some major health problem that is why it happened! It is hard but you have to move forward! Keep your head up!
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Have you had this happen to you and turn out pregnant?