My boyfriend was doing somethings that he shouldn't of been doing, like calling me names, yelling and grabbing me, this has been going on for awhile, but finally i decided to leave and scare him alittle. Its been about two days since i left and he hasn't called me, came to find me ( he knows where i'm at), or even called to ask about his son. I just wanted to make him see that i would leave if i needed to , but its backfiring and it seems like he dosent wanna talk and get back together. I"m getting really depressed. What should i do? Just let it go? Give him more time : why should i, i didnt do anything... help please.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:25 PM on Nov. 4, 2008 in Relationships
Hang in there. You don't want your son raised around that and it sounds like you did the right thing. As hard as it is stay away. Give yourself time to think and reassess. I'm sure he just expects you to come running back in a couple of days. If he doesn't call then it's probably for the best. I'm so sorry you are going through this. Talk with your family and close friends and get their oppinions...they can see it from a different perspective. YOU deserve better. Good luck!
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Answer by GNMom88 at 9:31 PM on Nov. 4, 2008
he's calling your bluff. at this point, if he stays away, I'd call that a win, bc he's obviously abusive and not committed to the relationship. if he comes for you, you hold the power to insist on anger management, or couples counseling or something. but don't go back on a promise that things will be better. he's got to prove he truly realizes what he did was absolutely unacceptable and get help to make sure it isn't repeated.
as an aside, faking a break up to try and make him feel bad or whatever you were trying was ill-conceived and immature. I hope you've learned something from this too.
GL and I hope it all works out for you and your fmaily.
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