im 16 and i have a 18 yo bf . weve been together off and on for 2 years . in our relationship weve both did some bad things to eachother ( his is worst ) but i have lived with him off and on for the past year now . recently during holloween i was home for about 3 weeks just to get a break and see my family . during this time he meets a girl and starts talking to her on holloween night . now he didnt sleep with her but they had been texting the whole time . and he was asking her to have sex with him and do alot of other graffic and explicit things and telling her he liked her and stuff calling her baby and stuff . so when i got bck to his house for about 3 or 4 days he was still talking to her like right infront of my face . so when i finally check his fone i see all the messages and im really hurt and chrushed . like he didnt exactly cheat but it feels like it . the worst part for me , well the second worst part , is that he was all in my face telling me how mch he loved me and missed me and wanted to marry me the whole time while he was talking to her . and that just made me feel very stupid and unloved . but the real worst part is he didnt even have the decency to stop talking to her , he kept talking to her right in my face . he didnt even try to cover it up . i woulda felt better not knowing then knowing . it really hurts bcuz 1 , he is my first love and im head over heals for him , 2 im pregnant with his child and 3 , i really thot he loved me . he does things for me an average guy wouldnt . he made me feel so insecure and inadequate like i was nothing and meant nothing . i just dont know how i will ever get over it and stop thinking about it and how i willl ever trust him . i was just starting to trust him before this happend and now its ALL gone . idk if i will ever trust him again . but i know ill always find out bcuz hes so blunt and rude with his infidelities . i know this sounds really immature but im 16 so what do you expect ? anyway im really hurt and sometimes i get really depressed about it . i just dont know how to let it go .
any advice or comments are much appreciated . please no negative or hurtful comments .
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