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Why is when u try to help someone all you get back in return is attiude and a bunch of bs i jsut dnt get it am lettign my friend and her baby stay here since hse has no job and no power at her house and she is always a smart ass and has rude comments i have bought the babys diapers and stuff for a mouth now am at the end of my rope should i ask her to leave?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:26 AM on Nov. 23, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I would. A friend of mine actually had something simmilar from her brother and his wife. They were staying with her and they were just so ungreatful. She finally got fed up with it and told them they needed to go. They were not paying bills, nothing. Just sitting there, eating up electricity and mooching!!

    Give her the boot,.

    Answer by AtHomeMommy-3 at 2:41 AM on Nov. 23, 2010

  • well she ahs food stamps so she can duy her own food etc.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:42 AM on Nov. 23, 2010

  • It seems the more we give the more they want. Not really an answer, just a vent! Kind of having same problem here.

    Answer by dreamn at 2:47 AM on Nov. 23, 2010

  • i undersand

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:49 AM on Nov. 23, 2010

  • She is not your responsibility nor is the baby. 4 her to show no respect at all is not right. She needs to go.

    Answer by Shelbegto at 3:00 AM on Nov. 23, 2010

  • I would spell out all that you've done for her and that you're doing it because she is your friend and you care about her and her baby. I would tell her that you don't need to do any of it, but you choose to out of friendship. If she doesn't show signs of gratitude at that point, I would seriously let her know where the door is so that she can go to that better friend who is apparently out there.

    Answer by Chocolatespring at 3:09 AM on Nov. 23, 2010

  • If she has not set a date to move then it is a good idea to tell her she needs to set a date to move out on her own. Give her a date and let her know she needs to find her own place by then. That way she has time to look for a home of her own.

    Answer by pnwmom at 4:45 AM on Nov. 23, 2010

  • Sounds like she is taking advantage of your generosity. As one of the other ladies said, I would give her a date and tell her she needs to be out by then.

    Answer by Scuba at 8:59 AM on Nov. 23, 2010

  • No good deed goes unpunished.

    Answer by salexander at 11:51 AM on Nov. 23, 2010

  • You did try but you cant do it for her I would be asking her to leave soon

    Answer by rebeccadac at 4:45 PM on Nov. 23, 2010

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