I'm reposting this questions because when I posted it yesterday, other than three actual answers, all I got was some sanctimonious bullshit, from cowardly Anon posters no less, about me being a nut job for protecting what I consider to be important. A nut job is someone that throws puppies off a cliff. Now, if it's one of these nasty whores who make it a point to go after married men goes off the cliff, then the end justifies the means. My question is not whether you think what I did was right or wrong, whether my husband deserved it more than the whore or whether I'm a nut job or jailworthy for that matter, I stand by my actions. I would gladly do it all over again and as a matter of fact, I would have been twice as aggressive...they both deserved a lot worse and no, she didn't move on to a better men. As a matter of fact, the whore got kicked out of her parents house because of this. She lost custody of her kids and has ended up having to shack up with some guy that beats the shit out of her. Now I don't know if my husband and I are going to make it or not but he professes that he's sorry (I don't believe him and will never trust him or any man ever again) and at least if there is a next time, he'll leave before he decides to stick his dick in another cum dumpster.
HERE IS THE ACTUAL QUESTION:
What is the most drastic thing you've done when your husband cheated?
Let me give you and example...when my husband cheated I put tracking devises on both his and the whores cars as well as locating every piece of info on her...basic stuff dob, dl#, ss#, bankrupcies all the way to the names and info of all the men she's had relationships with in the past 15 years. That's the kind of drastic I'm talking about.
Answer by Anonymous at 1:32 PM on Nov. 23, 2010
Answer by tootoobusy at 6:54 AM on Nov. 23, 2010
I left, the worse thing you can do to an ex is get on with your life like he never existed.......that hurts them, not you. That is your ultimate goal isn't it, it would be mine. Doing all those crazy things (tho I understand it) only makes them feel they did the right thing by cheating on you. Don't give him that pleasure.
Answer by zbee at 8:46 AM on Nov. 23, 2010
Answer by Niki_sd at 9:44 AM on Nov. 23, 2010
Answer by pieceofmind at 8:47 AM on Nov. 23, 2010
Answer by Orionsgirl at 9:36 AM on Nov. 23, 2010
This does not pertain to me, but it does to a lot of girls in my group. You can find solice in HERE
Answer by smokisses at 9:36 AM on Nov. 23, 2010
Answer by salexander at 11:50 AM on Nov. 23, 2010
Answer by TXColter at 1:19 PM on Nov. 23, 2010
Answer by ashleywilkerson at 4:10 PM on Nov. 23, 2010