we've been married for almost 2 years and were having sex for about 2 years before that. ive always known he's a tad selfish in the oral dept. he loves getting head and i never mind giving it to him but in all the time we've been together he's gone down on me 3 times! he knows i love oral and it's a big fetish of mine. i have never complained about how little he pleases me in that area. but lately i feel he's being too selfish. his idea of getting in the mood is "blow me baby, get it started and then we'll fuck" which is ok but i know it's his way of getting a bj. we can "get it started" in other ways like making out or using hands...but he insists on getting head first. its like hello maybe i need a little oral too to get started, im not an automatic faucet! ill admit it doesn't take much for me to get wet though but still it's the principal. he got upset with me last night because i was honestly tired and didn't feel like giving him head. he got mad and rolled over and that was that. i wanted to be like "yea, how does it feel?" ya know? idk what to do about this. feel like we're in a rough patch right now with his take take take mindframe.
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