He is a part time musician and goes out of town alot while I have the kids and his mother (who lives with us also). I do my share of complaining but no more than any other sane person in my situation. When I am at work and he has the household for more than a couple of hours he acts very resentful towards me. When I try to talk about it he is defensive and angry. He has sleep apnea also but doesn't sleep with the c-pap machine like he is supposed to. I desperately want to avoid being the 8 out of 10 marriages that end in divorce with children with special needs but I am afraid we are growing apart due to all of the stress here. Please help, I love my family and don't want to lose them.Answer Question
Answer by melody77 at 9:55 PM on Nov. 4, 2008
Answer by KatieCrandall at 10:00 PM on Nov. 4, 2008
Check out your area & find a marriage counselor that is perfect for you & your husband. There are many choices to choose from so find one that is right for the two of you. My husband & I have a great relationship but we still needed tools to use to make it a "lasting relationship". When I married my husband I also became a step parent & so these where changes for both of us. Get help on learning better communication skills with one another. There's no harm in learning more about one another.
Answer by onespecialmom at 12:09 AM on Nov. 5, 2008
Answer by BusyMom5x at 1:03 AM on Nov. 5, 2008