Sorry if this is TMI, but I warned you!! && I didn't feel comfortable asking this anywhere else.. because I know at least some women on here will understand! lol
Since having Bella our sex life has been what I would rate as a liitttlle more than good. We are still completely attracted to each other and into having sex with eachother.. and we still have good sex.. there are just some things that aren't the same.
1st- I can no longer orgasm without at least some self-stimulation helping me out. I have always been one of those unlucky women who are harder to get to reach that point.. but DH used to be able to get me there all by himself at least SOME of the time.. and always orally.. now it's even hard then! What is the deal?? I miss how it was before.. and I know it makes him feel inadequate sometimes.
2nd- I have a harder time getting "wet" down there before we start.. and a harder time keeping the moisture after we've been going for a little while.
It's not that I'm not turned on.. I really am.. but I used to be all ready after a couple kisses and touches and now he's really gotta put some work in and sometimes still no result. Again, I can tell he's feeling inadequate now.. and it is frustrating for me as well.
I feel like I shouldn't be having these issues, as I am only 21! I never had any of these problems until after I had DD.. but she is 14 months old now.. shouldn't it be better by now??
Have any of you gone through this.. and what did you do to fix it?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:15 AM on Nov. 23, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by sweet29mom at 11:17 AM on Nov. 23, 2010
Answer by LindaClement at 11:19 AM on Nov. 23, 2010
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