ok so a couple months ago my mother in law and my father in law said we can stay with them in washington until we could find our own place. so we moved from california to washington. it has been a challenge living here though. i am now 6 months pregnant but i was preg before we got here by like a couple months. so anyways we were all getting along fine for like the first month but after that it went down hill from there. my father in law chooses to pick on me an my son for now reason at all. he bosses me and my husband around like we are his servants and if we dont jump when he says jump because we busy taking care of our three year old son or we are at work and school he decides to take away the television like it is our punishment and the other day he locked out of the house cause he said we slammed the door. mind you it is now snowing in washington. we have like 6 or so inches. and today my son was watching television and he knows my son needs a warning before a transition of any sort but he goes in there and changes it without even saying a word. now i know my son is three and you shouldnt have to tell a three year old anything before you do it but my son is a little different he has special needs. so he changes it and says oh well go watch it in your room. he didnt even say sorry when he hurt his feelings. he is always doing stuff like that to hurt his feels. like he is very attached to his grandma and if his grandma says he has to leave the room for a minute so she can change then he can come back in his gpa will intentionally lock him out when she says he can go back in. also they have birds that sit next to the couch and poop and stuff on them but he says we cant lay on them because it will ruin the couch. i dont know he just has to yell at klay for everything he can think of and he does the same to me. but he doesnt do it very often if my mother in law is around or if my husband is around. he even yells at my husband. if my father in law and my mother in law have an arguement we get yelled at for it or we get "punished" like getting locked out of the house or he will take the coffee away even if we bought it, or he will take the remote to the t.v. i dont get it he seems to think it is ok to pick on a three year old and he dont even know me really well or even try to get to know me. if my mother in law say something to him he will act all nice around her and then mean still behind her back or he will act nice for awhile then go back to the same shit. i what would you do????? we are trying to get our own place and we do everything asked of us. we might have our own place but i want to get along with everyone and not have holidays be wierd. how do you deal with that? i dont even want him around my kid and then i am about to have another one and i dont want him around her either. my son has gotten to where if anyone raises there voice even a little bit he covers his ears. even if we are yelling at the dogs for something. he mostly does it when his grandpa raises his voice.
i dont know what to do! what would you do?? i know it is his house but he wants us to respect him and i get that but you dont just get respect with out giving it too. right?
please help! i dont know what to do!
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