The other night DH and I got into a huge argument.....He came home from work and we needed to go to the store to pick up a few things (no biggie) It seems the minute we stepped foot in the store , everything went down hill. I picked up a couple of frozen dinners (just to have) he made some smart comment about me being to lazy to cook...that set the tone! I told him , seriously? I only picked up a couple...not like a weeks worth of frozen dinners..... so we went back and fourth , he finally said he was going to the car...he didn't want to hear me bitch any more....fine....so on the way home the arguing started again.....I finally said...WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? Then he said I HATE you...Do you hear me I hate you! I just need to tell you that !I was shocked! So we went home and he started packing his things....he said he had ...had enough and was leaving.....I just sat there and made little attempt to stop him.......Then he said he was to tired he was just going to bed...so this was a couple of days ago...he said sorry...but honestly I can't get the "I HATE YOU" out of my head.....I've been kind of stand offish towards him...I just can't help it.....maybe this is childish....but could he really hate me???Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:31 PM on Nov. 23, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by Weezermae55 at 10:07 PM on Nov. 23, 2010
I think it is rather strange for someone who at one moment loves you and wants to spend their life with you then Hates you but it is definitely a sign that there is more to this than he is letting on. I would try to talk to him (calmly) about it but once it escalates I think it would then be best to seek counseling. First couseling for you only then invite him to join I think when you push counseling as a couple then the spouse ends up resenting the other for forcing it on them. Once you established your counseling then invite him to join if he refuses then it is time to realize he is not ready to tell you what the "REAL" issue is and it could be possibly (not necessarily) that he is having either an extra marital affair with someone and this is causing stress on your relationship with him because he is not able to seperate from it and you.
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