I was married to and have 2 kids with a man who is still making me miserable !
We were married for 4 years and for the last 2 I was miserable because he cheated on me and got to a point where he thought that it was ok...
I left him and thought everything was OK, and was starting to feel better, I even didnt care that he was dating people ( as long as they were decent for when he would have the kids 2 days a week) ... I even now have a somewhat friendship with his "fiance" ...... It honestly doesnt bother me that they are together because I do not want him back... but I think it is more that he was so horrible to me and it feels like he is being rewarded with his new woman.
I have been around them alot and I see how she treats him and how he treats her and I have talked to both them alot ( not about this ) but I can tell that it is not for show and this is truely how they are...
She literally looks like Kim Kardashian, she is a great cook ( I have ate her food and literally had a dream about the food that night ), she is wonderful to my kids (and I am thankful for that ), he is living with her in her home that she bought ( he has messed my credit up so bad it will take me years to beable to buy a home), and of course it is beautifully decorated.... She takes good care of him ( she is one of those women who "pamper" their men ) ...... but the thing that hurts the most is that he has respect for her, he is so different with her than he was with me... he is a completely different man and I know it is because of her and that makes me sooo jealous. He goes to church with her ( and was baptized a few weeks ago ) , he has family nights with her, he doesnt drink or party anymore, he is all about family and home life and he is happy with his life, and you can just tell that he is really changed !... It hurts badly that he hurt me so bad and that I am still dealing with what he did with me ( hard to trust men, plus the credit problem I mentioned, not to mention the fact that my kids love it at their house and never want to come back here after his days are up) ...and now he is the man i always wished he would be, and they have such a nice life together....
How can I pull myself through this ??
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