You need to get on with life and live! He's done it. By rights legal and bibically, you have every right to divorce him. If he had any love for you or honor, he would let you go. This guy wants his cake and eat it too! Before you tell him your plans, get all your paperwork in order. Your tax returns, everything you've invested into, what he makes, bank statements,etc. Open your own checking accound. If there is anyting you don't want to split with him, you need to sell it before you file. Once you file, nothing can leave the house until the divorce is settled. Write down what you want. Then ask around for a lawyer that won't soak you for all your money but will stand up for you. I say this because I watched my sister get nickeled & dimed. Every phone call, fax, or letter cost. Thats why you get the paperwork together. Also proof of his addiction & pictures of him with woman. Sorry u have to go through this. I pray God help u!
at 7:27 AM on Nov. 24, 2010