I knew he had a few of these active before we got serious. He told me he canceled all of them. But when one of my friends tells me they saw his profile still active on site that they're on as well, it surprised me. So given some questionable actions he's made and things he's said I couldn't help but snoop on his computer when he was at work.
I looked in his history and since this past September till this month he's visited this site 115 times!! His log-in name and password is saved so I log him in on this site. He's read all the messages in his inbox but never sent any out. He's browsed the profiles but never sent messages and "meets" or "gifts" or "hellos" on this site.
He constantly brings up our age difference and thinks I'll leave him for someone my age. (I'm 13 years younger than he is) I don't understand why he would have this account but never engage in conversation with other women. Is it the attention he likes? And let me add the fact that this man gets more attention from me than a baby to new parents! Is it the idea of being wanted? Does this seem like he has intentions to cheat?
I'm a person who wants to talk things through. I'm not one to shout and get emotional. I'd rather talk calmly. But he's the type to shut down and leave in a conflict. So how do I go about this....
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