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anal sex...for my husband adult content

My husband and I enjoy anal sex fairly regularly. I think it'd be very hot if I could buy a toy and return the favor for him. Anyone else have a husband that's been open to this? Or have tried this as well? Need ideas on how to approach it.

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jessicajacobson

Asked by jessicajacobson at 10:42 PM on Nov. 24, 2010 in Relationships

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  • How to approach it?? From the rear of course! LOL!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:43 PM on Nov. 24, 2010

  • No, I don't mean to sound like a prude...but my husband and I don't do anal sex.
    He says thats for homos!!!!
    khf22

    Answer by khf22 at 10:43 PM on Nov. 24, 2010

  • my husband is not open to this idea
    Darla47

    Answer by Darla47 at 10:43 PM on Nov. 24, 2010

  • Sounds like a sanitary problem. Yuck.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:43 PM on Nov. 24, 2010

  • lol to the first post. My DH likes to do that to me, but no way in hell would he let me do it back to him lol
    mommy5409

    Answer by mommy5409 at 10:46 PM on Nov. 24, 2010

  • I doubt you can just buy a toy and surprise him with it up his butt. Why don't you ease into it with a finger first. Don't scare the guy. You can go from there if he enjoys that.
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 10:47 PM on Nov. 24, 2010

  • do not even get me started
    mine asked, for this
    then i found out he has been doing this to himself for 30 some years and can not live without it
    now i am living without him
    hope yours is not hiding a life you did not know about
    i pray yours is not like my situation

    and for doing it, i think it is kind of gross
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 10:47 PM on Nov. 24, 2010

  • Try some anal beads and up they go lol
    Heidikans

    Answer by Heidikans at 10:49 PM on Nov. 24, 2010

  • Nope not something we have even tried or talked about in all of our yrs of happiness. But then to each his own.
    MyAngel003

    Answer by MyAngel003 at 10:51 PM on Nov. 24, 2010

  • Get some lube and jack him off, then slide down to the balls and butt hole area. Apply presure and then try inserting fingers. If he is open to all that, go get a butt plug and dildo. Men actully SHOULD enjoy anal, because of the prostate gland. Women have nothing back there that anatomically make them like it.
    dancinintherain

    Answer by dancinintherain at 10:54 PM on Nov. 24, 2010

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