I just found out I am pregnant with #5. My husband and I were using condoms and the pill to avoid this until we could either get insurance or the money saved to get a hysterectomy. I don't believe in abortion and I honestly don't think I could give my child up for adoption, but I know that he or she would have a much better life being adopted. My husband is of course extremely against adoption. We live in a really tiny place and not able to move because his hours have been cut way back. He is lucky to get 20 hrs a week. He has been looking for another job, but no luck because he does not have a GED or Diploma. My depression has come back full force and I fell like a sh*t. Do you think my child will resent me if I gave him/her up for adoption when we have 4 other children at home. I will answer any questions anyone has, so check back often.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:16 PM on Nov. 25, 2010 in Pregnancy
Answer by Jademom07 at 9:18 PM on Nov. 25, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 9:39 PM on Nov. 25, 2010
Do whatever you feel is best for your child. I would do research on the pro's and cons of adoption. I would also try to live (money wise) as if the 5th baby was already born that way you can see if financially you can handle another child you never know maybe it wont be that bad.Also for your husband getting a GED I think that DHR can help you out with that so you might want to call. The problems that you brought up (space and money) are issues that can be fixed with time and hard work. Also remember that children aren't as picky as we are. The only thing they truly want is are love. In the end the decision is up to you and I'm sure you'll make the right one.
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