I have this one friend who is very VERY intrusive and is it rather annoying. For example.... DH and I had an OB appt this past Tuesday and she txted us asking, "Any news yet on the baby yet?" DH responded with, "No, not yet, not sure what's going on right now." She responded with, "When will you know?" And it's like, come on seriously? I am an incredibly private person, especially now that I am pregnant. I suppose I am already over protective of the surroundings my child will be born into however there are things that a husband and wife need to experience together before the rest of the world should hear about it. Would you agree?
So now this friend is mad at me because I haven't really put forth much of an effort to really talk to her. And I will admit, I have an issue with that. However, I found out somethings that were rather unnerving and I didn't think too keenly on them. Basically she is Bi-sexual and has a crush on me. All I have to say to that is to each their own and all the power to you. I can be friends with anyone regardless of sexual orientation, religion, political standings, what have you. HOWEVER, if you get mad at me for feeling uncomfortable for you telling my husband you want a one night stand with me that is when a line of trust and a certain boundary has been crossed.
She is now accusing me of being afraid to talk to her and all of this garbage. She informed my husband that she and her husband used us as scapegoats in their fight the other night remarking about each one having sex with the other (DH and myself that is) because neither one wanted to have sex with each other. If you use my husband as a pawn in a fight regarding sex, that is where I say no more friendship. Joking, serious or not. I am not a jealous person, however it is both disrespectful and impolite. And I won't have it.
What should I do ladies? Oust this friend or should I let it go? There are several other issues but I don't really want to get into it.
Either way, does anyone agree that it is wrong to use a married couple in your arguments, or to pry into their business without an invitation?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:48 AM on Nov. 26, 2010 in Relationships
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