Almost 2 weeks ago my daughter almost got beat up in school -- of course someone was filming it with their cell phone ( she told me about it, but now I know exactly what happened) ... and now that I have seen that video and I dissapointed with the school ( teacher who had to of heard it start but went out of the room anyways) but so glad my daughter could handle herself and now I do not have to worry ( as much) ..
This is what happened: ( word for word -- I think I ahev watched the video a million times already)
My daughter has been dating this boy since 9th grade ( she is in 11th now), we always thought he was nice, but something about him I just didnt like... Well my daughter found out her cheated on her several times, but she still wanted to be with him after many tears and arguments over it I just let her deal with it ( afraid I would make it worse) ... I was very happy when she finally ended it because he was still with one of the girls that he had cheated on her with.
( this part is what I seen / heard in the video)
They were in math class, my daughter sitting at her desk and the girl 2 rows over, calling my daughter names and throwing pieces of paper at her. My daughter ignroes her and even answers math problems when the teacher asks ( teacher obviosuly ignoring what is going on ) ... then the teacher leaves the room and the other girl anounces " I am going to beat your ass! Are you f*cking going to ignore me now, slut" ... My daugher still "ignores" her and the girl continues " Do you think you are going to f*cking hit me back, bitch?"
My daughter then says " No, I probably won't even hit you back, I am sure it will hurt a little so I will go to the office, get sent home, I will go to the Dr's to get checked out and I will send your parents the bill... Also I am pretty sure fighting will get you kicked out of school for atleast a few days and that will go on your record and can mess with whatever future you have.... so if you really think that some boy that lied to us both is worth all of that, then fine! "
The girl then looked kind of stunned and just said " what the f*ck ever " and turned around and that was it ! ... my daughter said she hasnt messed with her since !
Wouldnt that make you so proud of your 16 year old daughter ? Of course I am still debating wether I should go to the school or not... I mean my daughter did take care of herself but you can tell in the video that the teacher was aware of what was going on and still left the room....one of my daughers friends sent the video to her phone so we can show whoever we have to talk to... What would you do ?
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