Ive just got married a few months ago to the man Ive been with for 7 yrs. We are best friends and share every aspect of our lives together. Early on in the relationship, I told him about my bisexuality. Yes, it bother him @ first, but through me reassuring him that I "buried" that part of me. He began ok with knowing that part of my past. Well, up to date...I find myself masturbating and fantasing about an old female lover of mine. She is married too, in fact to an old friend of mines!..(long story)..Im trying to remain faithful. If the shoe was on the other foot, it will kill me to find out he was seeing another female. Deep down, I know I shouldnt use my sexuality as a reason to cheat. But Ive been bisexual, ALL my life...now, I really feel like I did bury of special part of me...help!!!!!!...ok for a lil clarification//my husband is not @ all interested in 3somes and neither am I. Ive been a some 3somes in my time and they are usually geared towards the man. But I enjoy the one on one sexual experience with a sexy woman. I really dont know how long I can hold out on my desires.Answer Question
Answer by gypsymama532 at 12:33 PM on Nov. 27, 2010
I have debated about answering this because I think this is nothing but a "troll" question, but in case it isn't here is my advice. Being bi-sexual doesn't make you special. You chose to get married and be faithful to your husband. It is the same concept as if a "straight" woman gets married and starts to have feelings for an old flame. So, being bi-sexual has nothing to do with being able to be a good, faithful wife. If your urges are strong and you can't control them, then I suggest you seek counseling.
Answer by JeremysMom at 12:35 PM on Nov. 27, 2010
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Answer by Anna92464 at 12:50 PM on Nov. 27, 2010
Please by all means don't take this the wrong way as though i'm coming about as being mean & cruel. This isn't my intention; but, in my opinion you probably should had never married & should've just continued being single & bisexual. But since you are married i think what u probably should do is seek some counseling 2 see what can be done about this. I know you don't want 2 hurt your husband in any way shape form or fashion.
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