Why can't we as women Help change the child support laws instead of helping to keep them the way they are? They are wrong! It is set up for women to just collect a paycheck basically. You all need to stop! (maybe not everyone)
I get CS but my child's father lives in a different state and voluntary left. But what about all those great dads out there that live by their kids and want to be around. The one's who want their kids as much as possible but the women won't let them just so they can have some sort of control and collect their paychecks.
These dad's out there want to be able to buy their kids things and take them places too. But they can't because they have to give all their money to you so you can be the parent and the dad's can just be visitors. How sad.
What if he looses his job or is going through a ruff time, the cs just keeps adding up, it's doesn't stop. That is not real life, the mother won't go to jail for not making enough money for her kids, no one will know and no one cares it's only dads that suffer.
I understand if you want your ex to suffer I get it but it is hurting all those other good dad's out their not just your ex.
The women that really need help,the one's who deserve full custody should get it but there are a lot of details in the CS laws that need to be changed and it will be changing. California is already trying but it needs a lot more people out there to help and it needs to happen sooner than later.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:02 PM on Nov. 27, 2010 in Parenting Debate
Answer by Anonymous at 7:03 PM on Nov. 27, 2010
Answer by cheeseit at 7:12 PM on Nov. 27, 2010
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Answer by tat2dprincess at 11:53 PM on Nov. 27, 2010
My ex and i have no court ordered child support, he lives one mile from us. He has our daughter on Tuesdays, Thursdays( from 3-7pm) and has her one night on the weekends . He spends time with her on every holiday . He also , without fail , without question, gives me child support every single month. There have been occasions were he was struggling and if that happens he just explains his situation and either we skip that month or he gives us what he can( this has not happened in a long time) I realise we do not have a typical situation , but I'm grateful for it. our common interest is truly our child. We are equally responsible for her health , happiness and well being.
Answer by sulkygirl79 at 11:07 AM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by salexander at 12:56 PM on Nov. 29, 2010