Okay...I just went back and read from the beginning. So he won't even sit and talk to you and you are afraid to leave him because of the kids? The kids have nothing to do with this. If he is a good father, he will be there for them if you leave him. You don't stay with someone just because you have nowhere to go. You stay with them because you love them, because they treat you right, because you believe they have changed, and if they prove to you that they love you, and want to be with you and only you.
It sounds to me like he knows you will be there regardless of his actions...why would he change? I still would like to know why your sister is out of the picture and he isn't...because of the kids isn't really a reason...it's an excuse.
Please, don't take any of this the wrong way sweetie, I am only giving you my honest opinion.
at 12:47 PM on Nov. 5, 2008