he is my recent ex, was visiting his child yesterday, he has two older kids (not mine) who live with him 50%. girl 10, boy 14(who he was scout leader for years ago-not for last six years). when i was asking about older kids, he was talking about girl 10 -( she always had friends over when i lived there)...he said he told her that he perfers to have her play at her friends house instead of them coming to his house. i asked why?
he said, "to cover his ass" (i questioned this) he said "one of the things you learn in scout leader training..have another adult around incase child makes some kind of excusation" "a child could be mad about anything and make up something, if another adult is around, you have a witness"
is this something the boyscouts teach their leaders??? i ask because therapist told me that he should not be around our child unspuervised that she thinks he has no sexual boundaries-(he does not know therapist said this to me) makes me wonder if this is a scout thing, or is he trying to stop himself from something, maybe others "know" something i do not? it just seems like an over the top thing to say let alone act on. when i was there, girl-10, always had friends over after school, if she did not bring a friend home after school it was odd, i NEVER thought to have another adult there "to cover my ass" just me being paranoid or does this seem odd to you too
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