Okay I will be 39wk tomorrow my due date is Dec.6 my husband birthday is Dec.7. Well a couple of weeks ago while at one of my doctor appointments my husband and doctor got to talking and my husband asked if it was possible to hold out until the 7th. Doctor said as long as I dont go into labor before then and there is no complications she don't see why not. Well I go to the doc Tuesday and i really thinking about telling her I am ready this week. I told my husband this this morning and he has an attitude now. Do you think I am being selfish? I am just tired and uncomfortable, and ready for it to be over with. Besides I am tired of worrying if baby girl will be okay or not (found out at 30 wks that she has a csyst on her bladder). What do you ladies think?Answer Question
Answer by Zakysmommy at 11:35 AM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by DevilInPigtails at 11:39 AM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by midnightmoma at 11:40 AM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by LillyMommy at 11:40 AM on Nov. 28, 2010
Your the one carrying the baby so your comfort is what matters the most. If it's something you can wait on I would. I think it sweet that your husband wants his b-day the same as his babies. In the end it is your decisionsince your carrying the baby, I wouldn't use the word selfish at all, I dont think it's selfish it's just one of those situations where you have to ask your self can you or cant you compromise. Whatever the end answer is, will be the right answer.
Answer by Jenaiko01 at 11:41 AM on Nov. 28, 2010
The baby need to be born when the baby is ready, not when your ready. I get being uncomfortable... we all were at that point. But the baby health has to come before what's more convenient for you... sorry.
Answer by Crafty26 at 11:42 AM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by worriedmommy600 at 11:52 AM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by doulala at 12:27 PM on Nov. 28, 2010