We have recently adopted twins... I was wondering how many times should the b-parents visit our babies? Or what is an average amount for a VERY open adoption. Right now the we see the b-mom about once a week and b-dad just started coming back into the picture, so we see him every time b-mom comes over. Also, the b-grandparents come over too. Is that to much or to little? Just wondering about how many times you allow your b-parents to visit. I love the b-parents very much, but I just would like to know what is normal for visitation with b-parents.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:48 AM on Nov. 28, 2010 in Adoption
Answer by Anonymous at 1:59 AM on Nov. 29, 2010
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Answer by Southernroots at 4:22 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
it sounds excessive to me. When my twins were little I wouldn't want anyone visited once a week regardless of how we were related. I would also be afraid of setting a precedent. But, that's just me. How do you feel? Certainly it's not hurting the twins, more people to love them etc.
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