I keep hearing stories about people getting pregnant from pre-ejaculate, while on their period, while using the withdrawal method, condom breaking, rhythm method...all these accidents...
Then why on Earth is it at the same time that all of these accidents are happening..perfectly healthy and fertile couples are actively trying to get pregnant and even using ovulation tests and cannot??
Someone please tell me why this happens?
I might be pregnant from one little incident but my cousin and his wife actively tried to get pregnant for over a year and even went to a fertility expert who said they were both fine and finally they did...i just don't get it.
I feel like I'm being punished and it sucks because I'd much rather these sweet little blessings go to those who are trying and not people like me who have 2 kids already and feel plenty blessed enough.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:47 PM on Nov. 28, 2010 in Pregnancy
Answer by ashisamom at 12:49 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
Maybe those who are trying are trying too hard? Maybe the stress somehow affects the sperm production or something... I don't know, but it does seem to happen the way you said!
Answer by IhartU at 12:52 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by musicpisces at 12:52 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by Musicmom80 at 12:53 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by kerp1960 at 12:54 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by angelmine2011 at 1:00 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
Good question, it does seem like that. When I wanted a baby with my 1st husband it just wasn't happening. We tried for 3yrs, then I took fertility pills and got pregnant. The pregnancy was rough and I really didn't like being pregnant, so it really didn't matter to me if I had anymore, I had my baby and I was good with that. My other 2 just happened, was not trying. They happened many yrs apart. Just because I don't like being pregnant doesn't mean I don't love my children.
Answer by Shines3 at 1:11 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by wheresthewayout at 1:16 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by courtney_legg at 1:49 PM on Nov. 28, 2010