Ok, So my husband and I have been together for almost 15 years (High School Sweethearts), and married now for 6 years...and he has always been a bit of a jokster...but, he is a wonderful man.
Since we've had our 5th child I feel feel very insicure about my body and have somewhat low self esteem already. I feel like more and more often he make little jabs at me about my weight...
Like I have this picture of this girl that I use to date in high school in my wallett(my senior portrait),man she's HOT! Or he'llmake comments about what I am eating. The lateset was he calls me on the phone and tells me that he and a friend of his are having a Christmas wadger on who's wife can gain the most weight at the holidays!!! He's betting that I could and his friend that his wife could.
I kinda just laugh it off most of the time or tell him that he know's where he can shove it...but it really hurts my feelings and is getting to me.
What can I do to stop the negative comments??? HELP!
Asked by Anonymous at 1:02 PM on Nov. 28, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by voni681 at 1:11 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
He's being over the top insensitive. I'd say something like, all these comments and cracks are getting out of hand and you are hurting my feelings. Just because I may laugh at some stuff and try to be a good sport about everything doesn't mean that your comments are ok with me. So if you don't mind lay off.
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