So I asked this question
Basically it is about my sister, I let her live rent free in my other house, and she wants her friends to move in with her. I pay mortgage on the house, for the renovations, and Utilities. She is just living there making sure renovations are done in a timely manner and living rent free while in school. Good Deal Right?
My husbands brothers and sisters have been jealous of this for a while. They have asked for quite a few things, of which I rejected. His sister who is a couple years older than my sister has asked that we do the same thing for her. His brother who is a bit older than hubby has asked that we help him pay for his new car.
keep in mind. I'm only 26, my husband is 30;, yeah we have money but I went to school 6 years to get this money. I have a 7 year old, a 3 and a 2 year old. They all cost money. I pay private Health Care, which is a lot of money. I'm not rich, I just am able to fend for myself and one of my goals was to put my sister through college so she wouldn't do what I did and end up living with a BF and get pregnant young.
Am I being mean not giving to his siblings while I give quite a bit to my sister?
I was basically interrogated by his brothers and sisters because they overheard me talking to my mom about that last question. They asked after I sell the house where will my sister go. I said I'd get her a condo and we'll do the same thing. She can renovate it for the last years she's at school. Then they got all mad and stormed off.
They seem to think they should get as much since I give my sister so much. Yet before I had this money they didn't bother to visit, they didn't bother to keep in touch with their nephew. I make the larger sum of money in this house, and I invest money in real estate so I can have more money. My husband does whatever he likes with his money, if there isn't enough to help them, that's not my problem right?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:44 PM on Nov. 28, 2010 in Money & Work
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