How do you deal with fantasies/fetishes in a relationship? I never really discussed them with my husband when we were dating, but now that we have been married and living together the subject came up. It's never really been something that I've thought/worried about so I have no idea how common they are in a relationship, but he has a messy fetish where he likes to see women get messy while fully clothed.
I have no experience with that but his fantasy is basically for the two of us to go out together for a nice meal/movie, something like that, and come home still all dressed up and have basically a food fight I guess. Then shower it all off together, and you can guess from there.
He hasn't forced ANYTHING on me, or even said that he really wants to do it, he just told me that he would enjoy it. How do I handle something like this? It sounds crazy but I'm not totally opposed to it, the only thing that could happen is our clothes get ruined, which isn't the end of the world. Any advice? Is this something that is common but you just don't hear about, or is it really rare?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:52 PM on Nov. 28, 2010 in Relationships
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