I used the term quarrel (instead of fight) because I know a lot of women on here would respond back saying that they do not fight with their husbands. So lets say something happens where rhe hurts your feelings (or vice versa), would you (or him) react by giving each other the silent treatment, even if its for a few minutes, before you talk about it and work things out? Or do you just carry on as if you werent hurt and pretend like he didnt hurt your feelings?
I ask this because I am in a new relationship and we seem to give each other the silent treatment A LOT. We do talk later on about it but I do not like the silent treatment. I think it is immature, but then again I feel afraid to confront him and talk to him because I am scared it would escalate and become even worse. I always wait until he comes to me to talk whenever hes ready.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:36 PM on Nov. 28, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Orionsgirl at 5:39 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by HappyMonkeys at 5:46 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by hibbingmom at 5:46 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
no we always end up talking about why we were quarreling
Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 5:47 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
My husband always wants to talk but I will give him a the silent treatment. I don't want words to slip out of anger.
Answer by emilysmom1966 at 5:50 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by mamacita69930 at 5:51 PM on Nov. 28, 2010
Answer by -AJ at 5:59 PM on Nov. 28, 2010