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Give your opinion on this type of mommy

No GED, No Diploma
20years old
Babies dad, might not be the dad, and doesn't work but lives with her
Works 8 hours a day
Baby in day care 9-10 hours a day
Drops baby off at grandma's house Friday Night and gets the baby Sunday Night

Do you think: Wow it's great she has all of that help so she can have free time?
Do you think: Wow she needs to spend more time with her baby?
Do you think: She found a great balance?

Any others? What do you think of that?


Asked by Anonymous at 5:37 PM on Nov. 28, 2010 in General Parenting

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Answers (23)
  • the 2nd one. And she's a loser

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:39 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • i understand she's trying, but baby daddy (get a paternity test) needs to watch his kid since he's home, otherwise he needs to stop freeloading. She needs to dump the useless dead weight since she's PAYING for childcare. if grandma has no issues spending time with her grandchild that's wonderful. I assume daycare overlaps with her work schedule including commute to and from. So she spends evening with baby. She should just get rid of the guy living rent free at her home, eating all her food, and not taking any responsibility for the child.

    Answer by 2autisticsmom at 5:47 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • Loser, for sure. Hopefully she'll mature and realize that she needs to be a mom 7 days a week.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 5:41 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • Other: She needs to stop shaking up with the possible "baby daddy" and at least spend on weekend day with her child. Its not the grandma who got knocked up. This is coming from someone that got pregnant at 19 as well.

    Answer by TaraK. at 5:43 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • She needs to spend more time with her baby.

    Answer by sweetpea1217 at 5:40 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • I agree with butterfly.

    Answer by ashisamom at 5:41 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • She disgusts me!

    Answer by Simplicity3 at 5:41 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • She needs to spend more time w/her baby (the weekends) and she will probably learn this as she matures.

    Answer by Bubbie0809 at 5:44 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • my daughters are ALWAYS with me, when i go places...most of the time, last night it was to cold to take them to an auction so i told DH he could go and he did...

    Answer by JazzyJes at 5:45 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • She needs to stop worrying about her free time and be a parent to her baby. As for the rest, I would be able to overlook it if she was a good person and good mother.

    Answer by rhianna1708 at 5:46 PM on Nov. 28, 2010